LOVE

                                                                                                                              

"well, where do I start?"

Over time the definitions of love has evolved, from mere happiness to complexity of feelings. It varies from one person's perspective to another's. Through all this the only thing that remained consistent that it simply spreads a feeling of happiness, wanted by almost everyone.

There are many out there trying to define the term 'love' but according to my beliefs I rather find it unexplainable. Contradictory to popular beliefs I find love not limited by the bounds of only happiness and peace but encompassing all feelings either negative or positive. I think love is a process which develops over time and a person comes to terms with it in best possible experience and ends up naming it so. We tend to favor the most appealing definition either according to what we have experienced or what we would want. When it exceeds these points we simply name it to similar though less admired terms such as infatuation, attraction etc.

Movies, novels, series have turned the feeling of love into something so beautiful making us all blind to the obvious hardships of companionship. We are so blinded by the heart melting scenarios that we deny to settle for anything less and yes, we shouldn't settle for anything less, though we do neglect the fact that love can be more simple than it seems, that it does not need to be as auspicious as shown, that it can also be found in the smallest of gestures. 

People tend to love as per their understanding of what love is, for some it is so intense with no limitations or bounds, for some its just the thoughtfulness and compatibility. Truthfully, I think love is a basic need for living a life. Even the toughest one of us all can break if loved sincerely. They say love is a shared bond between two people, some believe it can also be one sided. I agree with the latter, it is needed and wished by everyone to be loved with same intensity they love others but u can still love someone whole heartedly and not have those feelings reciprocated and it is okay.

                                                                                                                                         -oshiya.

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