Regrets

                                                                                                                                                                                              Regrets

I've been meaning to write bout regrets for a while now. Regret is that emotion which keeps you awake at night, a feeling of hopelessness, something that fills your heart with dread. It is such a powerful emotion, it even holds the power to alter people's life. 

Though I personally think the fear of regrets is overrated. No matter what you do or how you do it, you can not please everybody, for some you may be righteous for some you may seem wrong, that's how it is going to be every time. It isn't about if u can't do it but sometimes you just shouldn't. Let it go. Not every decision you take is going to turn you into a billionaire, not one heartbreak is going to be the end of your love-life. 

There are always two sides to a coin, you may either win or loose, that's the power a coin holds over you. The same could be said about your mindset. Though unlike luck here you do have to be smart and make a winning choice for yourself, even if you don't, it's fine, make the rest choices right. You will always have plenty. Life isn't going to stop over one failure, it will throw in more opportunities to turn that failure into a setback. Let's take an example for a better understanding, supposedly for a change you order something new for dinner but it goes horribly wrong. Would you regret wishing you had stuck to the same old regulars you are so fond of? or would have you regretted not trying something new?

I find regret rather amusing, cause it does make you regret in both the circumstances, It is quite hilarious if you think upon it. I like to substitute the term "regret" for "experience", I can explain...all the choices you make in the end of the day, are just new experiences either bad or good. when you know regret is inevitable, just go for it, cease it. No matter what the results are, after all you are the ones with lessons learned. lessons are the keys. Nevertheless, life goes on, you learn to live with it, it never gets easier but time is a tricky thing... it keeps you distracted. That's what you do, accept it, you made a mistake, it's okay, your only human, and move on in life...there is so much more to live for.


-Oshiya.

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